What religious/spiritual advice would you give this woman...?

She was engaged, they broke up and she went a little crazy for a while, started sleeping around with lots of different men and ended up pregnant. Was going to have an abortion, then decided to keep the baby even though she doesn't know who the father is and none of them are interested in the baby. She follows an alternative religion and is planning to raise the child in it. She's changed her lifestyle and isn't going to sleep around any more though.





thoughts, comments, advice for the future...? thanks xxxWhat religious/spiritual advice would you give this woman...?
Never regret anything, all experience is of use. Even if thats avoiding/managing similar situations in the future,or even being able to offer advice to others





Goal of bringing a kid up, is about letting them grow into an adult, who can (as far as possible) make their own decisions/be let go of. Once they become a teen (and only then!) it becomes counterproductive to say you will do/believe in X,Y,Z simply because I say so. (listen to kids argument wrt ';spiritual'; matters and you'll often see the logic is far better/simpler than that of most adults!)





I find it amazing the number of ';alternative'; kids who rebel against their upbringing and try/do hard at school and get well paid jobs. Good thing is when they tire of the rebelling phase, they've keep the ';good job';, can look after themselves very well, and ultimately come to realise some of the wisdom of their parent(s)





Having two parents is overrated (except to give parents a break). A ';Frazzled'; single parent might find it a little difficult, but consistency is far better...





BB to them...What religious/spiritual advice would you give this woman...?
Well good for her, she has now realised that the baby is pretty important and is taking responsibility.


My spiritual advice would be just to enjoy being a Mother, and love the little one with all her heart, mind and soul. Enjoy every minute of motherhood because it does bring rewards. It wont be easy but hopeful she may get family support, and there are many groups out there who offer lots of advice for single mums, so no need to feel alone.


I would send some prayers to her and ask Angels to watch over her and her new life. Archangel Gabriel is a wonderful angel who looks after Mothers. Perhaps you could send a prayer to this loving Angel on her behalf.





God bless her and her baby and I hope that she will continue to get support from her good friends also.
It's going to be a hard road ahead of her. She's going to be alone raising a baby, which is tough. The priority here always needs to be the baby. This means when she does let a man in her life(which she shouldn't do anytime soon), he can't be any of those play with your penis, hide from consequences type.





When I was 19, I had my first child with a guy I stayed with for a looong time because I felt obligated and afraid to be alone. I grew up alot, because I had to. When I was pregnant, it all seemed so hopeless, I didn't know what to do or how I would make it. But, as I watch my daughter grow up I know that this was the best ';accident'; I ever had. You can do this, and if you need any advice on colic or pregnancy stuff please don't hesitate. It's going to be okay!
We all hit rock bottom many times in a life time. Its what makes life interesting. I bet you are NOW a better and stronger person then you were before the whole bullshit happend. Right? dont worry. We human beings do some crazy **** when were hurt. As far as the baby, i think its great that you decided to keep it. Although, I wouldnt scorn you if you had an abortion. To each his own. I do think that you should not force any religion on anyone, including the baby. I think your relationship to ';God'; should be a personal and private thing. Your baby should be able to choose for itself if it believes in ';God'; as he or she gets older.
Everybody makes mistakes. Not everybody wants to take responsibility for those mistakes. She is taking responsibility for her mistakes, and making changes to her lifestyle prevent repeating them. Sounds like somebody acting like an adult... The only thing I would say unless actually solicited for advise is Good on you!
The baby is about to become the most important thing in her life, When he/she is born, the mother will know what to do.
Learn the bitter lessons from past experience. Then move on and look for a brighter future ahead with a new life with the baby.
its easy to get your life all screwed around but its no biggie .. let go of negative feelings and grudges and forge ahead .. theres good people out there that will forgive you for your sins .. God will to if you can accept that ..
She should do what feels right. Other than that, she should let go of any guilt she is feeling by forgiving what she feels she did wrong.
Sounds good, nothing wrong with living a little.
Sounds like she found Jesus in the end.