Why when you ask for advice about highschool relationships people always end with 'well it won't work anyway'?

I keep asking my friends what to do with this girl and they give little-detailed responses but always end with ';but don't worry about it, relationships in high school never work out anyways';. Why do people have to be so negative?Why when you ask for advice about highschool relationships people always end with 'well it won't work anyway'?
theyre just bitter. [:Why when you ask for advice about highschool relationships people always end with 'well it won't work anyway'?
It's nothing personal, just that it is true most of the time. The fact is that the person you are now is very unlikely going to be the person you will be once out of high school. That, plus just the fact that in high school, relationships are viewed through much different eyes than they are after.





So simple answer: people change, and rarely do high school relationships last through that change.